Hi Mr D Sampath,

The key to happiness is not allowing anybody else to decide the criteria for success, yes indeed. Thank you for the comment. 

Hi Maddss,

Thank you for the endorsement.

Hi Nargis,

Conscience is what makes us human, I guess... Thank you for being here.

Aditi

Aditi...............

           That's some topic for debate. Loved reading your point of view.....For me success is defined by the sleep one gets. The more peaceful your sleep, the more successful you have been in life! And this can be achieved only if a guard called Conscience is always alert..........and not while one is sleeping but while one is fully awake:-}

Aditiji

Who would not agree with your contention!!

Regards

dear Aditi,
  i ahve never allowed 
any one else to decide criteria for my my success.
 but in whatever endeavour
 i do  take the feed back from the
 environment to calibrate myself..
success as defined by the maximum people 
is not necesserily how you can calbrate your own success.

 

Dr Kartha, Sir,

Thank you so much for the comment. I will shortly read your blog and mark my presence. 


Hi Julia,

Sure I will... my mom was not keeping well , just brought her back today from Nursing Home after a complete check up... what with my son needing to travel to Kolkata again for the rescheduled WBJEE exam later this week... etc... I am a litle tied up, but will read and  comment as I find time. . 

Hi Basab,

I do agree with your conclusion. 

Aditi

Aditi, contrary to the accepted belief, the meek will NOT inherit the earth. I know one can not avoid the blind judges and their judgements, but who compels you to pay any heed to those judgements? The fear of being ostracized from the blind 'society'? May be that would be a good thing in a way.

The best way to act and live your life, hear whatever others have to say, but do whatever you want to do.

Dear Aditi,
I know you are frightfully busy with the admission of your son. But when time permits, I would love your comment on my post - towards egalitarian relationships. I want to debate on the issue and need you badly.....:(
Julia

Dear Aditi Ray,
A nice critique based on today's values!
It would be interesting if we rediffine the term success. Suppose we link it to our efforts to control our internal space, than the external frames. Then we may realize that success is just an illusory trick devised by our simian mind to keep our ego stay content. With that awareness, you gain the equanimity and peace when the value of success and failure become insignificant.
By the by, recently we had been to Sringeri. 'Have posted a sort of photo-blog on that. Pl. have alook.
Kartha

Hi Sue,

Thank you for those kind words.



Hi Yash

Thank  you so much.



Hi narensomu

Blind judges can get lost in blind alleys...hahah... liked it.



Hi  lotuspetals,

Thank you, dear. Though I am not sure if I would be in a position  to claim the prize...hahah... 



Hi bhavna,

Thank you so much, dear. 



Aditi



 

well written... aditi ji...  definitely a gd read... m tooo tooo late here... Congratzzz on ur winninnnn.... wel deserved oneee... 

rgds
Bhavna